It is November, and we are looking forward to Thanksgiving. But thanksgiving—the giving of thanks—is appropriate and indeed vital every day of every year. The topic of expressing gratitude and/or appreciation has countless facets. Feeling and expressing appreciation releases “happiness” hormones, particularly dopamine and serotonin, and we feel good. It serves our physical, mental, and emotional health. The giving of thanks is good for our spiritual health as well, turning our focus where it belongs, on our Creator, Savior, and Lord. When we give thanks and praise Him, we are far better able to see the Lord’s hand in our lives. And finally, God’s Word calls us to give thanks in all times, in all places, for all things, to the Giver of all good gifts. (James 1:17).
The giving of thanks is also crucial in the development of relationship. When we give anything, we take something of substance from ourselves and turn outward with it toward someone. It becomes a means of connection. So when we express gratitude to God, we reinforce our faith relationship and strengthen our connection with our Creator, Savior, and Lord. But as we give thanks to God for others, it also turns our hearts toward them. We promote relationship as we affirm their value. The Apostle Paul provides numerous examples in his epistles of thanking the Lord for those to whom he was ministering long-distance. I have often wondered at the breadth and depth of Paul’s relationships with countless members of countless churches sprawled across a good portion of the known world. I suspect that Paul’s attitude of gratitude toward others and the quantity and quality of his relationships were closely related.
What might this mean for us as we walk in faith as the body of Christ? In our rushed, competitive, and performance-focused culture, it is tempting to become self-focused and operate from a platform of expedience rather than to be led and fueled by the indwelling Holy Spirit. It can be easy to choose independence over faith, missing precious opportunities to become more deeply connected to one another. And connection is crucial if we are to become a unified, fully functional body unit that is able to participate in the Lord’s kingdom work among us and through us and to manifest Christ to an unbelieving world by our love and unity.
May we be continually mindful that the Lord has blessed us with one another!
We ought always to give thanks to God for you, brethren, as is only fitting, because your faith is greatly enlarged, and the love of each one of you toward one another grows ever greater.
II Thessalonians 1:3